A three-decade bond inspires extraordinary support during a challenging health journey.
SINGAPORE: In a touching act of generosity and solidarity, a Singaporean employer has spent over S$30,000 out of her own pocket to support her Filipina domestic helper, Judith, as she battles second-stage breast cancer.
Judith’s ordeal began in May this year when she experienced persistent chest pain. Initially dismissing it as muscle strain, she discovered a hard lump on her right chest during a shower. Upon returning home from a trip, she informed her employer, Mdm Fu, who immediately took action.
The following day, Mdm Fu accompanied Judith to a medical check-up, where the diagnosis revealed second-stage breast cancer that had already spread to the lymph nodes. Doctors recommended urgent surgery to remove Judith’s right breast and halt the disease’s progression.
In July, Judith underwent surgery, followed by a recommendation for 16 rounds of chemotherapy. Acknowledging the severity of the situation, Mdm Fu and her family chose to keep Judith in Singapore for treatment, despite the significant costs involved.
Overwhelming Costs of Compassion
As a foreigner, Judith is not eligible for medical subsidies in Singapore. The family has thus far spent around S$30,000 on surgical fees, hospitalization, and medical examinations. This figure does not include the cost of chemotherapy, with each session priced at approximately S$1,500, amounting to an additional S$24,000 for the entire treatment plan.
Although Judith’s insurance policy was updated in 2021, its coverage is limited to hospitalization and surgical expenses, leaving the costs of chemotherapy and other follow-ups uncovered.
A Relationship Rooted in Decades of Trust
Judith, 55, has been a part of Mdm Fu’s family since 1991, building a bond that has endured for over three decades. Despite her health challenges, Judith remains deeply committed to her employer’s family and plans to renew her contract for another two years after its expiration in November.
“I am lucky to have such an employer,” Judith expressed, emphasizing her gratitude.
Shared Battles, Shared Empathy
Mdm Fu, a breast cancer survivor herself, was diagnosed with stage 1 breast cancer six years ago and underwent reconstructive surgery. Her personal experience has heightened her empathy for Judith’s situation.
“I know how difficult this fight is. Seeing my helper go through this makes me very sad, and I hope she can recover soon,” Mdm Fu shared.
This heartwarming story highlights the profound bond between an employer and domestic helper, underscoring the importance of compassion, generosity, and mutual respect.
