As the General Election approaches, Suresh Vanaz shares his struggles as a full-time caregiver and what needs to change for a more inclusive Singapore.
Singapore’s upcoming General Election has sparked discussions on the country’s future, but for caregivers like Suresh Vanaz, the urgent need for support goes beyond political debates. At 46, Suresh has spent over two decades as the primary caregiver for his 41-year-old brother, Seelan, who has cerebral palsy. The daily struggles, financial strain, and lack of systemic support have left him and many others feeling overwhelmed.
Suresh gained public attention last December when a confrontation at VivoCity escalated, shedding light on the challenges caregivers face. The incident was more than just a heated exchange—it reflected the frustration of navigating Singapore as a caregiver with limited resources.
One of Suresh’s main concerns is the lack of financial support for single caregivers. While government schemes encourage parenthood, those dedicating their lives to caring for disabled family members often receive little assistance. Housing is another critical issue, with many struggling to afford or retain their homes. Suresh believes that targeted financial aid, such as subsidies for caregivers, would ease the burden.
Utility costs also weigh heavily on caregivers. Essential medical equipment and frequent hygiene care for individuals with disabilities significantly increase electricity and water bills. Existing support, like vouchers, falls short of addressing these needs.
Beyond financial concerns, Suresh highlights the emotional and mental toll of caregiving. Seeking help from government agencies often leads to frustrating responses, such as being told to downgrade housing or place a loved one in institutional care. These solutions, he argues, fail to recognise the reality caregivers face.
Suresh also calls for a cultural shift in how society views caregivers and individuals with disabilities. Everyday encounters, from insensitive remarks to dismissive attitudes, reinforce the need for greater awareness and empathy. He stresses that respect and understanding are crucial in creating a more inclusive Singapore.
Looking ahead, Suresh envisions a Singapore that prioritises quality of life over relentless work culture. He hopes for a return to stronger community ties, where families support one another, and caregivers are valued rather than overlooked. As the nation moves forward, he urges policymakers to take concrete steps to ensure that caregivers are not left struggling in silence.
